Divorce / civil partnership dissolution is never easy, and the decision to separate can be filled with emotions, stress, and uncertainty. However, many individuals believe that they can navigate the divorce process on their own without the need for a professional family lawyer. With the cost of living still weighing heavily on everyday finances, DIY divorce may seem appealing due to cost and convenience. However, it is crucial to recognise that where such important legal processes are involved, taking matters into your own hands can often lead to unforeseen complications and mistakes.
Complex legal considerations
Divorce involves various complex legal issues that require careful consideration. From determining child arrangements to negotiating property settlements, DIY divorce can leave individuals feeling overwhelmed and unsure about their rights and options. Family lawyers are well-versed in the nuances and complexities of family law, enabling them to provide comprehensive advice and guidance throughout the divorce process so individuals can rest assured that their interests are being protected and their rights are being upheld.
Financial implications
One of the primary reasons why DIY divorce can be problematic is the complex financial element of divorce. When it comes to dividing assets and calculating spousal maintenance and child support, it is essential to have a clear understanding of the legal and financial implications. Without proper guidance, individuals may unintentionally overlook important details or miscalculate their financial responsibilities. This can result in significant financial consequences that can have long-lasting effects on both parties; a former spouse may still potentially make a financial claim against them in the future, sometimes even years down the line, or they may agree on something they come to regret but may struggle to change.
Avoiding mistakes
Divorce and financial settlements involve numerous legal documents that need to be accurate and completed in a timely manner. Whilst DIY divorces may provide a step-by-step guide, the chances of making mistakes are higher. By hiring a family lawyer, individuals can rest assured that their paperwork will be handled correctly, reducing the risk of errors and the potential for time-consuming appeals.
Mediation and collaboration
DIY divorces often overlook the benefits of mediation and collaborative divorce. Family lawyers can help facilitate mediation sessions or collaborate with the other party to reach a ‘fair’ settlement. By avoiding litigation, you can save time, money, and emotional distress, ultimately leading to a more harmonious post-divorce relationship. This is beneficial where there are children from the relationship, and maintaining a good level of communication with a former spouse can aid co-parenting and, ultimately, the child’s wellbeing.
Protecting future interests
Divorce can have a long-term impact on various aspects of life, including finances, child arrangements, and future relationships. Those using a DIY method may not fully consider the long-term consequences of their decisions. Family lawyers have the experience to offer valuable insights and recommendations to protect an individual’s interests.
While DIY divorce may seem tempting, it is essential to consider the potential drawbacks and weigh them against the expertise and guidance of a professional family lawyer.
Please contact Anthony Jones, a solicitor and director at O’Donnell Solicitors, on 01457761883 for advice about divorce, financial settlements or any other family law matter.
